Why I Am Thinking Today of a Suicide Twenty Years Ago
Today, twenty years later, Im beginning to show signs of age; like his scars, my face is becoming a map. The fact is, I never cheated on him if what one means by cheat is have sex; I slept on my exs couch; we talked; we cried; I refused to come back. Knowing this still isnt enough. The note left on the seat of my car indicted me. Today, I held a boys hand, his age half mine. His cheeks trembled above his new beard and his eyes filled with water he wouldnt call tears for another boy with a tattoo of the word LIBERTINE across a throat he cut himself. Today is all we have, one bright lie in a wreath of lies I weave for grief. Like scars on a burn victim, like wrinkles around eyes, like strands of new hair on the fresh cheek of a boy who is learning about the dark currency of being alive in the world. I can see him reading my face, discerning his next turn, looking for side roads, some way through this. There is no way to cheat, no way to erase complicity. I squeeze his hand as he cries, grateful for his beauty. Behind my face, I can sense a road I didnt know existed opening out to somewhere I didnt know I wanted to go.