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Grey Spectrum is a peer-led discussion group that allows asexual (ace), aromantic (aro), and other grey spectrum identified individuals to meet and discuss a wide range of topics associated with being on the grey spectrum. This group is open to all individuals under the Grey Spectrum including but not limited to: asexual, aromantic, demisexual, demiromantic, heteroromantic, or people questioning on the side of the Grey Spectrum. 


Contact the group facilitators -- Sam Gro or Bones B for more information on the group. Please note that Grey Spectrum is a peer group and that there is no mental health counselor or other accredited professional available at these events.  

Fall meeting schedule and topics: Bimonthly on Tuesdays from 6 p.m. - 8 p.m.


August 28
Talking Terminology
introduction to the split-orientation model 
September 11     
The Deal with Demis
discussion of identities, other than asexuals and aromantics, that fall within the grey spectrum
September 25
The Relationship CompACE
how to navigate relationships on the grey spectrum squishes vs. crushes and queer platonic partnerships
October 9
Coming Out
advice for coming out on the grey spectrum to friends, families, coworkers and more
October 23
The "A" in LGBTQIA
a special event will be held in honor of Asexual Awareness Week
November 6
Asexual Arrangments
a conversation about sexual activities on the spectrum - sex-positive and sex-repulsed


Social and Discussion Group Policy 

All Grey Spectrum participants must be currently enrolled in classes at the University of North Florida. Special considerations will be made for college students at FSCJ, JU, or another college/university. One-time exceptions may be made for visitors by contacting Kaitlin Legg, Director, at at least one week prior to their preferred visit. A one-time exception is not necessarily guaranteed.  


The primary mission of these groups, as well as the UNF LGBT Resource Center, is to support LGBTQIA+ college students. Due to increasing attendance and need, the Center can no longer support community members within support and social groups. In addition to the scope of the Center’s mission, social groups must also follow safety and confidentiality agreements and safe space guidelines, which restrict most areas of service to college students and the campus community.